If I took my entire collection of toys and outfits to a session, I’d need a team of porters with 3 or 4 luggage trolleys laden with about a dozen suitcases full of latex, silicone toys, impact play toys, bondage equipment and much more.

What I actually carry depends on the session but most of the time I walk into a hotel carrying an ordinary black tote bag.

It’s light enough to carry comfortably across London, discreet enough that nobody gives it a second glance, and surprisingly well stocked. I avoid anything awkward like canes or riding crops sticking out of the top of the bag attracting attention in hotel lobbies.

Inside are the toys and accessories I use most often. I have plenty more equipment and an extensive wardrobe of latex, PVC, leather and costumes at home, but these are the reliable favourites that come with me almost everywhere.

Wrist and Ankle Cuffs

Probably my most-used BDSM item.

Whether I’m feeling dominant or submissive, a good set of cuffs instantly changes the mood. Some clients enjoy being restrained while I tease them. Others like the challenge of tying me up instead.

They’re quick to put on, comfortable, and much more convenient than trying to explain to hotel housekeeping why there are ropes hanging from the wardrobe.

Rope

Sometimes cuffs aren’t enough.

A length of soft rope opens up all sorts of possibilities, from simple wrist ties to decorative bondage or restricting movement during role-play.

I enjoy rope because every session can be different. Some clients simply enjoy the feeling of surrender, while others appreciate the artistry of the ties themselves.

Doxy Wand

If I could only take one vibrator to a session, this would probably be it.

The Doxy Wand has an incredible reputation for a reason. It’s powerful, dependable and versatile. Some clients love it as part of a sensual massage, while others enjoy combining it with BDSM or edging.

It also survives years of professional use, which is more than can be said for many rechargeable toys.

Flogger

One of my favourite impact toys.

A flogger can be surprisingly gentle or deliciously stingy depending on how it’s used. I love how adaptable it is. It can warm someone up with soft rhythmic strokes or become much more intense if that’s what they’ve requested.

Both submissive and dominant clients ask for floggers, depending on who is taking control that day.

Brat Bat Paddle

Sometimes clients want something with a little more bite.

A paddle delivers a satisfying thud that many people enjoy, particularly those who appreciate corporal punishment or playful discipline.

Some sessions involve strict Mistress energy.

Others are full of laughter and cheeky brat taming.

That’s one of the reasons I enjoy switching. Every dynamic is different.

Double-Ended Flexible Vibrator

This is a wonderfully versatile toy.

One end in my pussy, the other in my ass and a tongue on my clit is a personal favourite.

Satisfyer

Technology has come a long way.

The Satisfyer is compact, quiet and incredibly effective. It’s particularly popular during sessions where we’re mixing teasing, denial and prolonged arousal.

Despite its size, it’s one of the most requested toys I carry.

Lubricant

Good quality lubricant simply makes everything more comfortable, safer and more enjoyable. I never leave home without it.

Condoms

Of course.

Strap-On Harness

Last but certainly not least.

Many people know me for strap-on play, so my harness comes with me on almost every booking. Different clients have different preferences, so I have a selection of compatible toys at home that can be swapped in depending on the session we’ve planned.

Beginners often want a slower, more exploratory introduction.

Experienced submissives sometimes have rather more ambitious ideas.

Either way, preparation and communication always come first.

One Bag, Endless Possibilities

That’s the funny thing about my little kinky tote bag.

It doesn’t look particularly exciting from the outside, and it certainly isn’t heavy. Yet inside is everything needed for many of the sessions I enjoy most, whether that’s sensual domination, playful submission, bondage, impact play, role-play or simply helping someone explore a new fantasy for the first time.

Of course, this is only my everyday kit. If a client has something more specific in mind, I also have plenty of additional toys, outfits and specialist equipment waiting at home.

But for most adventures?

One ordinary tote bag is all it takes.